By releasing fairness, we can make piece with “sticking out” or being different. If we are focused on living based on what is possible, rather than on giving or getting the same amount, we can go farther and experience more.

I've released fairness. I aim to live based on on the possible, not on the fair what is really possible. And that means, to me, because i have been on the journey for a long time, ind most of my relationships, i care for things, navigate things, integrate things much more than whoever else is there. Why? Because i can. If i was committed to fairness, i would say, why should i do more than you? I shouldn't. But i choose to because i know that if i take responsibility for caring for both your needs and mine, then over all, our needs will be cared for better than if i wait for you to do that, if you are earlier on the journey. So that that's a piece that that, for many people, is hard to and yet, if you accept it, im it ts a lot easier. I wouldn't do it beyond capacity. For many years, i was doing it beyond my own capacity, and i fried myself a bit. I'm recovering from that right now.