We live by scripts that are the rules that guide our interactions. Breaking the script is visionary; it allows for more intimacy, honesty, transparency, and hope.

Breaking the Rules of How You Engage with a Stranger I disrupt to be visionary. So an example, one of my favorite examples, is when i was living in the bay area, i would go to the farmers market every week. And there's three weeks in that farmers market where they have mulberries. They are amazing, just for three weeks. It's the kind of thing that i never made at home with the mulberries, because i would eat them along the way. And so and i had a little cart that i was walking around with. And i one day walked and this woman says, what's that? N i say, those are mulberries here. Have one. Breaking the rules of how you engage with a stranger, right? And she nno, no, thank you. I say, why not? Really? They're really good. Why don't you just try one? And she resists and resists. Finally she takes this crawny little, kind of like, somewhat deformed one, and i say, no, here, take this one. Take a good one. She takes it, and she says, how much should i give you? Then i say, i don't want you to give me anything adthen i walk and i see she puts two dollars in my cart. And i say, no, you're demeaning this interaction by putting money into it. Here. Take your money back. And then she woke up from the trance. I don't have any other words. She suddenly looked at me and she said, who are you? How did you come to be this way? So i broke i broke script. But that's just one example, and this is a lovely, fun example, whak, it also gets to be tricky when there's pretence, when we don't talk honestly. I push for more intimacy, for more honesty, more transparency, more careful the whole, all the things that are in the vision, i try to embody them in the nano seconds where they when they could be brought up. (Time 0:06:45)